Who We Are

The IDI is a private, international, multidisciplinary group comprised of psychoanalysts, academics, diplomats and other professionals, who bring a psychologically-informed perspective to the study and amelioration of societal conflict.

What We Do

In the 21st Century, understanding the “Other” presents itself as perhaps the major difficulty in the field of diplomacy and international relations. Reflexive, historically-based antagonisms –the origins of which are often lost in the past but the emotions and symbols of which can be reactivated passionately in the present – contribute to conflict between communities and nations. Rational approaches based on each sides’ real interests are defeated by irrational views of one another, and discussion becomes dangerously confused or polarized. Working relationships – tense to begin with – break down even further.

Psychologically-informed dialogue is aimed at opening a reflective space in this disturbance of communication and relationships. Its goal is to understand how the emotional and historical background of that disturbance – often related to trauma – is being experienced in the present. This kind of intensive psychological learning can help participants overcome resistances to dialogue and facilitate their finding peaceful solutions to intergroup problems.


Bringing people together to address the emotional and historical origins of societal conflicts.

Our mission is to understand, and thereby help to overcome, the psychological barriers to peaceful resolution of conflict between communities, nations and cultures. The IDI facilitates reflective dialogues between representatives of groups in conflict, with the aim of learning about the historical and emotional basis for these troubled relationships, including the effect of past trauma on large group identity. We develop concepts and interventions aimed toward understanding emotionally-charged large group differences, and offer education, training and consultation to others engaged in this work.

Founded by its current President Emeritus, Vamık D. Volkan, in 2007, the IDI has since met once or twice a year to discuss topics and examine processes related to international tensions, especially between the Middle East and the West. The IDI began as a project of the Erikson Institute of the Austen Riggs Center. Erik Erikson, a renowned humanist psychoanalyst and former member of the Riggs staff, pioneered the interdisciplinary, psychologically-informed study of cultural differences and national leadership. Now an independent organization, with charitable status in the United States, the IDI is grateful to have received support from various organizations and private donors. The IDI is a fully independent interest group, however, with no institutional obligations.

Meetings of the IDI focus on current issues and events related to international conflict. Examples of those topics and discussions can be found in our reports. The work of the meetings begins with members, and sometimes invited guests, presenting informally but with first-hand information about the two or three central foci of a given meeting. This is followed by in-depth discussion, which develops understandings of the issues by exploring the key stories surrounding a given incident from a psychodynamic point of view.

By design, we also take note of our own group process. During discussion, participants, sometimes without realizing it, become, or are seen as, representatives of their own countries. Each member thus becomes an informal spokesperson for his or her large group, while at the same time maintaining individuality. This process allows group sentiments to be expressed more authentically.

The ensuing reflective dialogue may then provide insights into the emotional relationships between those countries, as they are perceived by the group at this moment in time. This level of understanding – informed by the study of group and organizational dynamics – adds new hypotheses and potential layers of meaning to the conceptual discussion and narrative understandings emerging so far.

IDI meetings have four broad outcomes. First, they develop psychological insights, concepts, narrative understandings and language that are useful in making sense of the emotional dynamics of international relationships and events. Examples of this include the ideas of “chosen trauma,” linking objects, the inability to mourn, large group identity dynamics and the inter-generational transmission of trauma.

Second, the group develops a common language between psychologically trained participants and those who are diplomats, politicians or from other disciplines. This provides a model for transferring psychological insights in understandable ways to those who are responsible for diplomatic communications.

Third, the IDI functions as a conceptual sounding board and support group for those members currently engaged in consulting to governments and other societal groups. It also provides a forum for learning from and refining group interventions carried out by members outside the meeting.

Finally, the IDI functions as a platform for its members to engage the broader public in dialogue. This occurs in various ways: through dissemination of books and papers, presentations, summaries of meeting discussions, and our Blog. We also organize dialogues and public events, sometimes associated with that year’s meeting.

We Don’t Speak Of Fear

The IDI is pleased to announce publication of “ We Don’t Speak Of Fear: Large-Group Identity, Societal Conflict and Collective Trauma,” the IDI’s first collective effort to share its work. Divided into sections on theory, application and methodology, We Don’t Speak Of Fear holds the idea that, while traumatic experiences may happen to an individual or a family, they also affect society and large-group identity over long periods of time. In that way, trauma plays out between generations and between countries.

At this moment in time, when tribalism and polarization are rampant, with humanity split into thousands of splintered groups, and the very planet itself threatened, this compelling book, unlike much of the conflict resolution literature, addresses the deep, frequently unconscious roots of conflict, not just the symptoms. With great understanding and compassion, the various authors explain how the profound, historic wounds of shame and humiliation and fear of loss of identity keep so many communities divided and imprisoned. At the same time, they offer a much-needed vision for how human beings might heal these deep wounds and begin to live on the presumption that we are one human family, despite our differences. We Don’t Speak of Fearis a wonderful contribution to the global family and deserves to be read, pondered, and decisively acted upon.’

Hugh O’Doherty, Founding Member, the Leadership and Peacemaking Global Network – 10/02/2023

Our Podcasts

Inside the IDI

With Dr. Jerry Fromm, the former president of the International Dialogue Initiative, explore the diverse IDI’s family-like dynamic, combining expertise in psychology, history, law, politics, and business to foster global dialogue and peace.


Lord Alderdice

explains how in the aftermath of 9/11 the co-founders of International Dialogue Initiative came together and what the objective was.

Group Dynamics and Conflict Resolution

David Fromm provides insight into the work of the International Dialogue Initiative (IDI), focusing on understanding large group differences and exploring the psychology behind global conflicts. Fromm emphasizes IDI’s commitment to applying insights, intervening with larger groups, and providing experiential understanding.

Understanding Societal Conflict

Explore the profound insights shared by Donna Elmendorf, Co-President of the International Dialogue Initiative (IDI), shedding light on the organization’s pivotal role in understanding and addressing societal conflicts through a psychological lens.

The Psychological Aspects of the war in Gaza

Join esteemed IDI members, Ed Shapiro, a seasoned psychiatrist, Lord John Alderdice, a key figure in resolving Northern Ireland’s crisis, and Dr. Robbie Friedman, a catalyst for dialogue in conflict zones, as they unravel the complexities, bringing their expertise in peacemaking and dialogue to shed light on the significance of the Gaza conflict in today’s tumultuous world.

War in Gaza: Local and Regional Perspectives

In this captivating discussion, IDI specialists analyze the complexities of the Gaza war, offering insights from both local and regional perspectives. Dr. Jerry Fromm, esteemed former president of the IDI, leads the conversation alongside Hiba Husseini, a seasoned legal advisor deeply immersed in the peace process, and Nimrod Goren, a distinguished senior fellow specializing in Israeli affairs.

A Psychologically informed Conversation on Iran Israel Relations

A psychologically informed dialogue on Iran-Israel relations, misperceptions, identities and much more, between Robi Friedman and Bijan Khajehpour.

The Psychological Aspects of the Ukraine Crisis

What are the psychological aspects about the Russian invasion of Ukraine? Why are we witnessing so many different reactions? What kind of dialogue do we need to move forward? How can the concept of large group identity help us comprehend this complex situation? In a conversation with Bijan Khajehpour, three experts—Regine Scholz, Coline Covington, and Anna Zajenkowska—who are all members of the IDI, respond to these queries.

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